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Hi Anonymous,
Ever since this new girl came to our school she has stated taking over my best friend. Now their doing everything together and i feel left out. What should i do to get her back?
Have you ever heard the saying: If you can't beat them join them? Well in your case how about you join in the fun. Get to know this new girl, invite her over to your house and then the next time you are all together in a group the new girl will talk to you as well! she might be loads of fun. If this doesn't work sit down with your best friend and tell her that you are feeling left out of the group maybe then she will understand how you feel. Don't be afraid to tell her how you really feel about her new friend. If she is really your best friend she will understand.
Melissa, 12
Hi!!!! I am going on the boat tomorrow with my sister but were going without our mum and dad! I'm really stressed out! Please help me!
Jenny
Right now, The best advice that i can give you is have fun. Your over thinking it. I know your probably thinking that it will be a bit scary but honestly you will be fine. Think of it as a new experience, this will be exiting, if you are really worried about it, you could talk to your sister and tell her how you feel, then she could give you som words of advice but here I put together a check list for you of things that you can take:
- Magazines (if your into magazines these are great for boat trips)
- A Camera (Snap some amazing photos of wildlife to show mum and dad, or maybe make a movie on the boat thats always fun
- Sunglasses (Esspecailly in the middle of the day, the sun will reflect of the water and into your eyes)
-A few coins (Buy a souvenir, or even some lunch or a snack to eat.
Take a deep breath, Nerves are not only from being anxious they can be caused from excitement!
Dear Anonymous. I am having trouble making friends around me. There are some friends, but they are not my bffs. They don't hang out with me always or undersand me. I never had problems making a bff. Now, I feel lonely and left out while everybody enjoys. Please help!
Making friends can either be very hard, or it will just come easily. Don't try too hard to find a bff because friends will come naturally but don't forget to involve yourself in conversations. You could try and invite someone over to your house or go for a walk in the park to really get to know their interests and their hobbies. The best way to make friends is to get to know them, if you share an interest then the rest will follow. As you said you never had troubles making a friend before I'm sure you will be fine. Don't be stressed out about it I'm sure theres someone just like you waiting for a friend. Remember a great position when meeting people is to start with curiosity not certainly.
Bloom
i have a bf who is very loving and caring. But all the problem is that he is very busy and does not have time for me at all. He hardly spends time with me, This is the thing i cant take. I give him all the love and imp and expect the same but he never does that and now i stoped talking with him, But he does not find any difference. please help me
Its heart-breaking when you genuinely care about your BF and feel emotionally attached to each other, but he just doesn't seem to see you that often. It can feel like he doesn't care, but have you tried talking to your Boyfriend. Maybe he has a reason why he isn't seeing you very often. He could be caught up in school work or battling issues at home. Try to bust the reason out of him. If he is really soulmate he will understand.
Unfortunately a BF that is not paying attention to his girlfriend means that he may want to break up. He could be avoiding you because he doesn't way to break your heart; Hopefully this isn't the reason why. At this point my best advice is that you sit him down and express your feelings, or else maybe he's just not 'the one'. Spend some time apart, and if he misses you then he will pay more attention to you when he next sees you.
i recently broke up with my boyfriend whom i loved more than myself...and now i am not able to take a breath even...proposals are coming to my way but that is of no worth...still thinking about my bf but there is no chance of patching up and that is for sure that he's never gonna patch up with me!! what should i do to foret him as well those memories of us..?? plzz tell asap :
The hard thing about long-term relationships or even just relationships in general, is that 90% of the time you can expect heart-break. The more you say to yourself that you are going to forget about your BF the more you will actually think about him. I heard somewhere, that the amount of time that you were together with your BF, it takes double the time to forget and get over him. For example: if you were together for a year, it will take 2 years for you to get over him. Unfortunately we can never truly 'forget'. There are things that you can do to help those memories fade away though, that can include: Packing away items (such as photos of you and him) that remind you of him, keep yourself occupied so that you simply don't have the time to think about him,watch a comedy movie that will make you laugh and don't feel sorry for yourself because that can effect in negative emotions that are really depressing. Stay positive. The saying goes "forgive but never forget" but in your case lets "Forgive and Forget". Its all uphill from here and everyday it will get easier, guaranteed.
Riya
This 'change in personality' can be really tough to cope with, but can be even tougher to confront her about it. There are several things that you could do to tell her that you don't want to be friends due to this change, and it does not have to be at all harsh. Take it step-by-step. First of all ask her if she is ok, if she asks why, tell her that she's been acting differently. Start taking less notice of her and talk to other people and make new friends. Don't make it seem like you hate her, just enough so she gets the message. If all this not enough then the only real option is to talk to her, stating why you are not really wanting to be friends. Who knows, this personality change could be a result in something happing in her life, or it could be just the fact that you both are moving on and growing up.
My best friend isn't how she should be. She had changed a lot, and I've had enough of her. I am planing to break our friendship, but I don't know how.
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I really want to sing in the talent show but i sorta kinda have horrible stage fright! Do you have any tips to get over stage fright?
Stage fright is a fear that nearly everyone has. The good thing is, there are loads of techniques that you can try to release that fear. Going into the talent show, your going to face your fear with confidence. Be confident that everyone is going to love your act and that you are the best singer in the room. There is nothing that you have to be afraid of if you have confidence in your act. Before you go on stage, get pumped. Run around, jump up and down, take shallow breaths until all those nerves melt away then just take a moment to Breathe! Take several deep breaths to calm yourself down after that adrenaline rush. Then, i want you to think about the audience. They are not there to laugh at you or make fun of the acts on stage. They are there to appreciate the talent. Finally when its your turn to go up and sing. Don't forget to paint on the biggest Smile! Best of Luck and remember to enjoy yourself!!
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